You begin to question your own judgment, sense of right and wrong, and reality. Even if he doesn’t pressure you with words, the way he reacts to your silence could be just as bad. It feels supportive and nurturing and life-giving. It appears he, like most ungodly men, enjoys being a womanizer and using women as objects. She also sounds happy, if not thrilled, to hear from you. But you can’t get her to feel the same way. To me, the occasional unsolicited dick pic doesn’t feel like … If you feel like your wife is becoming selfish, it’s a bad sign she doesn’t love you anymore. Tell your partner 'I love you,' with a genuine, warm tone.
Sure, he’ll miss some things, but communication is important to him. On the one hand, you may fear for your sanity, your sense of identity, and possibly even your life.
